Getting Nervous? Here’s Exactly What to Say When You Propose

You and your significant other have a million inside jokes, and you never run out of things to talk about. That's how you know they’re “The One.” But now, you’re facing a new problem: You’re putting off the big proposal simply because you don’t know what to say.

We get it. Pulling off the perfect proposal is enough to terrify even the most cool, calm, and collected person. You’ve likely figured out when to propose, and you might even have that stunning Imolove ring hidden safely in your pocket. Now, it's time to take action.

Are you destined to fumble through the proposal, just hoping to get the words out? Nope! Here are a few ways to craft the perfect speech to match that perfect ring.

1. Free-write the Reasons You Love Them (No Editing Allowed!)

There’s a reason why this is the person you want as your forever love. Maybe they taught you that it’s okay to show your emotions. Or, maybe they inspired you to crush your fears and chase your wildest dreams.

Get those feelings out by doing a "brain dump." Simply write down every single reason you love them. Don't worry about spelling, grammar, or flow—you can polish that later. Just put pen to paper (or open a voice memo!) and let it all out.

2. Talk About the "Aha!" Moment

Sometimes, there's a defining moment that took your partner from "dating" to "The One." Maybe it was the time they stayed by your bedside when you were sick. Or maybe it was just a random Sunday morning over coffee.

Use this moment as the anchor for your speech. Tell the story of what you were doing and how it helped “flip the switch” in your head, making you realize you never wanted to be without them.

3. List What You Love Most

This one should be easy. Pretend someone asked, "So, what do you love about them?" and list it out. It can be simple things, like their smile or their terrible "dad jokes," or something deeper, like how caring they are toward their family.

Highlighting these specific traits shows you truly see them—and appreciate them.

4. Paint a Picture of Your Future

By now, you’ve definitely discussed a future together. What does that look like? Maybe you want three kids and a farmhouse. Maybe you want to travel the globe. Or maybe you want to pack up and live the simple life on a beach in Costa Rica. Whatever the plan, use your proposal to talk about that vision—and tell them that that future only exists if you’re doing it together.

5. Keep It Simple: The 4 Magic Words

Sometimes, the best proposal is the simplest one. If you’re worried about stumbling over a long, drawn-out speech, don’t force it.

Find the right moment, drop to one knee, and present the Imolove box. They might not remember a five-minute speech, but they will definitely remember the moment you look them in the eye and say: “Will you marry me?”

6. Most Importantly: Sound Like YOU

It's tempting to hit up Google or TikTok for "perfect proposal speeches." That's a mistake. While reading others' speeches can give you inspo, don't copy them verbatim. Why? Because it won't sound like you.

Get inspired, but write your speech in your own words. Authenticity shines brighter than any diamond.

Ready to Make It Happen? Words come from the heart, but the symbol comes from the hand. When you find the right words and pair them with an Imolove ring, you aren't just proposing—you're creating a memory that lasts a lifetime.

Good luck! We’re rooting for you.